“Riding a bicycle is the summit of human endeavour – an almost neutral environmental effect coupled with the ability to travel substantial distances without disturbing anybody. The bike is the perfect marriage of technology and human energy.” ~ Jeremy Corbyn
Bikes over Cars
One of the cool things about Nantucket is that most people ride bikes. While it isn’t carless like Fire Island, (I wish it was!) they have an extensive network of bike paths that make it easy to get around. When my cousin asked if I wanted to rent a bike, I was
scared shitless hesitant, but I wasn’t going to let that hold me back.
Guys I have not ridden a frickin’ bike in fifteen years. Fifteen Frickin’ years!
Let that sink in. I am a mermaid! Mermaids do NOT ride bikes! We ride surf boards! And lay on boats. We do not bike!
Now that we have clarified that little disclaimer, I hoped on a bike and rode it like a champ…..Or not.
Legal Little person
One of the reasons I have not ridden a bike is because I am short. Like I can get it on my drivers license, I am LEGALLY short. So finding a bike that actually fits me, is a trial and a half because they are made for ALL the giants!
We ended up renting bikes from Easy Rider. They attached baskets, delivered and picked them up for us. It was under a hundred for the whole week, which was a great deal, especially on an island. You can also tell them your height, which mine may or may not have gotten lost in translation.
I tried the bike out and having not been on one since the era of above mentioned diapers, thought it was fine. Akward AF, but fine.
The bike won
We went out to dinner that night and oy vey was it a lesson in being humble and letting go of ego.
I never knew bikes could brawl, but they can, and it beat my legs to a pulp. I looked like I had engaged in some very suspect activity. The bike was a tad to big with the handle bars as high as my chest, and I couldn’t even put my feet down, even with the bike tilted.
I admitted I was ridiculously uncomfortable. Paired with also being afraid I was going to make an idiot of myself, (which I did, and I did not melt from embarrassment) I looked like a statue riding a bike.
Which guys, if you ride bikes you know you can NOT ride like a statue! It does not work, You got to bend your knees, and pedal, and most importantly you have to breathe to help you relax. Which I was not doing.
Letting go of ego
The next day we switched my bike out for one that was much smaller. Even my cousins had said the other bike was to big for me.
While it was easier to navigate, the reality was, I was using my height as an excuse so I didn’t make an idiot out of myself.
I am a perfectionist to a T. I have to ace everything I do. As a skater, my coach would get mad at me, because I wouldn’t move on to another sequence or jump, if I hadn’t perfected the one I was working on.
The reality is, you are never going to perfect something. You can be damn good at it, but you cannot perfect it and you will make yourself crazy attempting to.
The only way you can be good at something is if you practice. I hadn’t ridden a bike in fifteen years, there was no way I was going to be “Good” at it.
It is okay
So many people ride bikes, it is like a right of passage in the states, taking off the training wheels and peddling on a two wheeler. While as kids we are hesitant and even a little scared, we don’t fear embarrassment, we channel our excitement and let go. And when we fall, which we are going to, we get back up and try again.
As adults, we fear that embarrassment, we aren’t suppose to fall, we SHOULD know how to ride a bike. We forget that we aren’t born knowing everything. It is why we are taught how to walk, and talk. Why we go too school to learn math and reading skills. As we get older and start new jobs, we are still learning. And yes sometimes we have to relearn tasks and activities.
As a figure skater, every time I had a growth spurt (which wasn’t often) I had to relearn jumps. I had the fundamentals, but my body changed and I had to adjust to it accordingly. Yes, I rode a bike when I was a kid, but my body was different, and mentally I was more free. It was okay to make mistakes. It was okay to NOT know everything.
And it is STILL okay.
The first few times we went anywhere longer then a mile, I was white knuckling the handle bars, and so tense, I am surprised I didn’t fall off my bike from lack of oxygen. I wasn’t breathing. I was more concerned about making a fool of myself then letting go and enjoying the process.
And I did make a fool of myself.
AND I survived.
The more I peddled, the more I “practiced,” I felt my confidence grow. By the end of the week, I felt like a friggin queen riding my bike around the island. Who said mermaids can’t ride a bike?
I even talked about buying a bike, because I didn’t want to lose my skills, but I think the real reason I didn’t want to feel that fear and embarrassment again. The truth is, those emotions aren’t bad, they aren’t “negative” they can be quite positive and a motivator if you let them be. By pushing through them, I gained a new found confidence and a love for an activity that I though had just been a childhood pastime.
Yup, definitely just like riding a bike.
Did you ride a bike as a child? Do you still? What is something you haven’t done in awhile?
13 thoughts on “Just Like Riding a Bike”
LOVE that bike, the basket is too cute!! and i love that you kept trying till you got it 🙌🏻
The baskets on the bikes are the cutest things ever! How tall are you?!? I’m only 5’1″ so I totally know the struggle – I’ve face planted off a too tall bike before. 😭
The basket would look even cuter with a bunch of flowers! You are doing better than me, I can’t ride a bike at all without training wheels (or stabilizers depending where you’re from) but I’m pretty much Ariel (mermaid reference) with my red hair so I’m excused right?! Hope you’re having the loveliest weekend! xx
As a bike rider, I nearly passed out reading “15 years”. Like WHAT?! I love riding a bike. It’s good exercise and I just enjoy the air in my face. Still, even if your a mermaid, get some bike riding going. (Or the bribery will commence lol) 😆
I am so glad you posted this! I could ride a bike as a kid but I tried to ride my friends one a few years back and was so scared. I forgot it had brakes and put my feet down to stop🙈 We’re trying out bikes in Greece and I am worried of looking silly but mostly of injuring myself. Wish me luck😊 x
I can totally relate. As a kid, I used to love riding my bike. Then, I had an incident where I fell off when riding down a hill and vowed to never ride a bike again. A couple years later, I bought a new bike and started up again. It was scary at first but once I got the hang of it, I remembered how much fun it was!
I love riding bikes in the summer! I learned when I was little and now bike all over Long Island.
Omg the bike with the basket is soooo cuteeee!! And I’m pretty short too, my husband and my neighbors make fun of me all the time and make short people jokes lol. But I love riding bikes, it’s good exercise but I agree, some are too big and it’s hard finding the perfect size, I do miss riding bikes though. I hope that when my son gets a little older we can all get bikes and ride together. 😃
That bike is super cute!! I try to ride as often as i can but we probably go for a family bike ride once or twice every year xx
You make me giggle ‘looking like I’d engaged in some very suspect activity’ haha 😂 I love cycling! It’s mad you hadn’t cycyled in 15 years, wow, that’s so long but it easily happens especially if it’s not a hobby. I actually enjoy riding a bike but it’s probably been a good year since I last rode one, maybe even longer. Mine got stolen from my garden and I haven’t bought a new one since. I want to though! So proud of you for perservering hun! It’s definitely worth the practicing and who cares if you fall, you’re still one of the most awesome people out there and your smile radiates through these photos!
I’ve not been on a bike for a long time either, and I guess I’m a little afraid as well. I’m glad you got your confidence back! I guess in the modern world, mermaids totally ride bikes! x
It’s the first time I’m reading your blog. I did ride a bike, but not any longer.
I haven’t gone to the movies in years, either.